婚姻与家庭

------------------------------------- I have each team member to decide what they want to  accomplish, the way they want to, and when they want to. I will balance the business goal and their personal will. Leading is to encourage them towards the business goal as their will. Give them freedom. Leading is not asking them to fulfill anything as your will. Dictating is not leading. Good leader think he is equal to each member. The only difference is leader's role is to server each member as any need. Provide fairness, flexible environment within the team. Bad leader server nobody but himself. Bad leader command team member to fullfil anything as his own will. Bad leader punish team who do not follow his will.    ================ Freedom inspire innovation max. I give team member max flexibility/freedom I can to inspire their innovation. I set the business goal and let team member to decide what they can innovate and how to do so, when to do so. My...

美国的职场常常很下流.你要是不明白,就是你对别人还没构成威胁.你的傻B经理告诉你他多么公正,是在蒙你傻.

I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. That is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant. Martin Luther King Jr. Man must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love. Martin Luther King Jr.

Those who make peaceful revolution impossible, will make violent revolution inevitable --- JFK When injustice becomes law, rebellion becomes duty- Thomas jefferson Can you count on the one who don't serve anyone but himself? --------------------------- Thank You For Standing Up for What You Believe in You are Not Only Standing Up For Yourself You Are Standing Up For Every Person that will Not Stand Up for Themselves ! Thank You ! -------------------- There is a huge underlying story of police corruption and the plight of a man that tried his best to do good but was relentlessly punished for it. ------------------- There was once the Underground Railroad. Where runaway slaves, fugitives, would be housed and helped by subversive abolitionists. There was also a time, during  the Nazi regime, where criminals and enemies of the state would harbor and transport Jews and other persecuted peoples in search of safety. We are living in different times now, but as Mar...

哪里的boss不扑街？大多都是顺我者昌，逆我者亡。 不容许有不同意见，否则就被穿小鞋惩罚。 想得到boss的眷顾和宠幸，有两种途经： 其一是与boss脾气相投，变成和boss一样的扑街， 媚上欺下，欺软怕硬，指鹿为马，颠倒是非。 这种小人往往就是boss的嘴巴和左膀右臂，boss的打手和看门狗， 深得boss心，历史上弄权的太监都深得皇上的宠幸。 其二是绝对的忍气吞声，绝对的任劳任怨， 不过，这种人随时都有得抑郁症和精神崩溃的危险。 一个人对待同级或者上级nice不代表这个人nice， 要看他是怎么样对待下属（比如自己的孩子）。 权力可以暴露一个人的真实本性。 如果你想看清楚一个人的真实本性，给他权力吧。